A Korean Proverb About Kind Words: 가는 말이 고와야 오는 말이 곱다
Learn the meaning of the Korean proverb "가는 말이 고와야 오는 말이 곱다" and discover how Koreans use this expression to talk about kindness and respectful communication.
Korean Idiom




안녕하세요 DK 가족 여러분~ 반가워요!! 잘 지냈어요? 😊
Today’s Korean proverb is 가는 말이 고와야 오는 말이 곱다. A natural English meaning is, “If you speak kindly to someone, they’ll speak kindly back.”
가는 말 comes from 가다, “to go,” + 말, “words,” so it means the words you say to someone. 오는 말 comes from 오다, “to come,” + 말, so it means the words someone says back to you.
곱다 usually means “beautiful” or “lovely,” but here it means kind, polite, or pleasant. The grammar -아/어야 in 고와야 has the meaning of “only if” or “in order for.”
So the proverb reminds us that kindness often comes back to us when we speak kindly to others. 💚
How about we share some kind words and compliments with each other today? 😊
